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The programs that run us |
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Computers seem to be everywhere these days. Lately I have found myself thinking about programming in terms of ourselves. A computer program is a series of instructions which the computer obeys without thought or knowledge. Just as well of course in a computer -- if I type in a word into a word processing program, the last thing I want is for something else to happen like playing a tune or even shutting itself down. Survival strategies |
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So what we do in the face of conditional love, in the face of parental and later societal agendas is to abandon the personalities which are truly ours and develop survival personalities. The problem with survival personalities is that, because they are not truly who we are, they prevent us from feeling and being at a deep and genuine level. The other problem of course with survival personalities is that they are unconscious. We identify with them. We think that this is truly who we are. And so the program runs without conscious choice on our part. Except, that is, for a sort of feeling of dissatisfaction, a feeling that there must be more than this, that we are missing out on something important. And of course we are. |
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Childhood wounding What this leaves us with is another sort of programming -- we find ourselves triggered by circumstances which, unconsciously, remind us of that basic wounding. We react, again unconsciously, with a depth of feeling, rage, sadness, grief, which is quite inappropriate to the current moment. And it hurts, it doesn't serve us.
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| So, here we are, going through life like little computers reacting, time after time, completely predictably (and usually painfully) to the circumstances of life. And wondering why. Personal development
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I won't say that my life changed dramatically all at once -- but it definitely did over a period of years and most of that change stemmed from the realisation that I had a choice and that the more awareness I could develop, the more power I could have to choose. I think that one of the most important things that good personal development workshops do, is to create a space which is both exciting and safe, giving us the opportunity to let go of some of that programming and allow the bits of ourselves we abandoned to return and inspire us. |
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Adrian Longstaffe September 2001 |
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